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I remember walking to a club one night, with a buddy. There were these five or six hotties all dressed to the nines, way ahead of us on the sidewalk, and this group of guys about half-way between us and the girls. We were chilling, it was early in the evening, and I was going over a few pointers, when we noticed the chicks.

The guys of course are all talking amongst themselves looking at the girls and they were laughing, surely making typical dorky jokes about how they would have sex with the girls in all kinds of positions, and acting all fake "cool". They do nothing. Talk some more amongst themselves.

But, in the words of Britney Spears, If you like then:
WHY DON'T YOU DO SOMETHING?

And then, the girls turn to their CAR, so the guys pull out an "AWESOME TACTIC":
They start WHISTLING at the girls.

That's sarcasm there, by the way.

So the girls turn around, and they of course are now on ANTI-SLUT DEFENSE MODE.

Because WHISTLING as a form of pick up SUCKS. It makes the girls feel CHEAP if they respond to it. CHEAP feels BAD. Cheap RUINS self-esteem.

FEELING BAD IS BAD FOR PICK-UP.

Most of the girls just look annoyed, and ONE of the girls says something like "Do you think that's going to make us TALK to you?".



Now, the thing is, these guys were probably NOT BAD GUYS. They were all so busy trying to act COOL to EACH OTHER that no one wanted to RISK rejection by actually putting themselves out there and actually going for the kind of interaction that works. I mean, even if they don't know how to do proper pickup, ANYTHING is better than that whistling sh*t. Even just "keeping it real" and being straight forward with something like "hey girls, what's up" is STILL better than that!

Unless of course, you whistle ON PURPOSE and then follow it up with something FUNNY like, when the girls turn around, saying "oh no not you guys, I'm looking for my DOG!"

THAT is at least FUNNY!

And the truth is, you don't have to be a COMEDIAN to do this, you just have to know what the MOOD is supposed to be, both internally in yourself and the mood you want the chicks in.

Also, I hardly HAD any friends growing up except a few CLOSE friends, so I really don't CARE what GUYS think of me! In fact, I don't really care what GIRLS think of me! So for sure I don't care what GUYS think. I don't mean that in a MEAN way, I just mean that I'm out to have a good time, and mingle with LIKE MINDED people.

And by the way, this just happens to be the attitude of the girls who are smoking hot.

Do you think that it's a coincidence?
It's not.

These attitudes are born from the way we THINK.

Around the same time, I mentioned to my client the following words:
"GUYS do a lot of our work FOR us. By acting so BAD, the standard is not HIGH. So when you go in and do it all RIGHT, you RULE! THERE IS PLENTY OF SUPPLY, plenty of women, there just aren't enough COOL guys who GET IT."

In fact, this is why even beginners sometimes get lucky with a girl, then they think they are SO LUCKY and they kiss up or get needy out of insecurity, or they act MEAN out of insecurity, and it ruins all the fun. Which makes the girl pull away, which makes the guy MORE insecure and needy and pushes her farther away.

The craziest part of it all is that these girls GO SO OUT OF THEIR WAY to TRY to be attractive, working out, watching their diet, dressing sexy or funky and fun, TO GET GUYS! And yet guys act in ways that should be OBVIOUS would make girls feel bad, but guys do it anyway because they are too afraid to get REJECTED, so they would rather that they act like DORKS or jerks or they act super fake extra nice out of insecurity. It's all fake.

It was a great motivator for the night, but that's a different story.

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